This tradition began a long time ago, during the Roman Empire, but became more spiritual following the death of St. Valentine. Valentine's Day has evolved from a day to show love in simple ways to a costly and important holiday for couples. Couples spend anywhere from $10 (middle school relationships) to upwards of $500 (my guess is married couples or serious relationships). It is the holiday with the second most amount of cards sent in the mail to loved ones. It has also developed more from couples to any sort of loved ones such as friends and family. Many parents send or give their children gifts, especially children who are single.
Personally, I don't see the big deal about the holiday and I don't see why people think it's such a great holiday. I absolutely hate it, most likely due to my relationship status, but I like to think it brings awareness to us single folk. What happened to the good ole days called elementary school where each student passed out Valentines Day cards and candy to their classmates and it was just a friendly holiday. That is when I actually used to look forward to this day, now I dread it. I find it to be depressing and pointless. People shouldn't express their love for people on just one day a year because the calendar tells them to. People should always show their love for anyone they truly love in their lives everyday of the year. What makes our love so special on this one day? Absolutely nothing. It is just a reason for people to get gifts, cards, and feel more loved than every other day. I think it would be better for marriages and relationships to spread out the gifts, cards, and love throughout the year and always keeping them surprised and interested. Also, what is the point in generalizing the holiday for everyone? It isn't and we single people accept it and accept the pity love and gifts we get from people we are non-romantic with. So here is to all those with a special someone in your life, enjoy today, but don't forget to show your love every other day of the year.